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Nobody Weird Like Me

Posted by Lynnster on November 23, 2006

I got taggeded (sic) by Sista the other night to post six weird things about me, but the past 24 hours have been a nightmare so I’m just now gettin’ to it. I should probably call my former co-worker and see what she says those six things are because she thinks plenty I do is weird, but it’s late so I won’t. I bet she’d come up with six totally different things than these though, I might have to call her later in the weekend just to see what her six things about me would be.

Actually I have probably already posted six or more weird things about myself in recent weeks – not liking chocolate, for one – and I already posted over at Sista’s about not liking to be on the phone except with The Edge (Not of U2 – see? It works!), my mom, my sister, or my future mother-in-law (I don’t like the phone because being on the phone was too big a part of my job for too many years). But since I’ve already gone over all that, I’ll think of six new things here.

OK, so here are Six Weird Things About Lynnster.

1. I have my dad’s feet and my second toe is longer than my big toe, except it won’t straighten out (too many years in tight pointy heels and other shoes probably ) so you can’t really tell it unless I straighten it out and show you. But, I can do something with my feet he couldn’t. If I concentrate real hard for a minute, I can make my littlest toes stick way far out and it looks pretty strange. The left toe is easier to do than the right.

2. Next to my bed, there are two alarm clocks that have three alarms total – two beeping and one radio, which the latter I keep at the loud end of the dial. Once upon a time the least little noise would wake me up, but nowadays I’m very hard to wake up and can sleep thru most anything. I have had this setup for about 15 years now. Unfortunately now, lately, I’ve found I can sleep thru all three of those alarms too. Including the one on the clock that was advertised to have an “extra loud alarm”. I had an old-fashioned windup alarm clock with a bell in the mix for a while too which sort of worked, but eventually I slept through it too. Lately, I have found that the alarm function on my cell phone will wake me up (the current ringtone is The Vines’ “Outtathaway!”) but I’m sure it’s only a matter of time before that stops working, too. I have two different clocks that were advertised as having “extra loud alarms” and all I’ve got to say to that is yeahsureright, NOT. Not enough anyway.

3. Back before I started working at home and what few days out of the year I have to go work at our corporate office – as well as out at at restaurants, etc. – I drank my coffee with Sweet’N Low, Equal, or whatever, but never sugar. At home, I only drink it with sugar, never the artificial sweeteners. And it bugs me if I have to drink it with sugar when I’m out of the house, or with artificial sweetener at home. It SERIOUSLY bothers me to have to do vice-versa. This makes absolutely no sense, I know.

4. As much as I love and am obsessed with music, and as long as I’ve lived in Memphis, I have never been to the annual and huge Beale Street Music Festival during Memphis in May. I’m not too keen on crowds nor traffic, and even tho there have been plenty of bands and artists I’d have dug seeing, they’ve yet to have a Lynnster-absolutely-cannot-miss one in all the time I’ve been here, so I’ve just never gone.

5. My family would like to be able to say I’m adopted because of the blasphemous-’round-these-parts fact that I hate, loathe, and despise country ham with a passion and beyond almost any other food ever. People outside the South probably won’t get it, but country ham is a pretty huge thing down here and, in fact, giving someone a country ham is a pretty generous gift around these parts – it (or a turkey) are employee Christmas bonuses at some Southern companies. Anyway, I hate it immensely. I’m sorry, but country ham is N-A-S-T-Y. There, I said it. And my family can’t say I’m adopted because I look too much like them, and now all you Southern folks that come by here think I’m weird because of it too.

6. A hodgepodge of little things for #6 – I don’t know how to grill, I am grilling-impaired. With the exception of when I was little and my grandfather showed me how to wash a glass at the family drugstore, I never washed a dish by hand until I was in college. I never mowed a yard until I was 30 years old. When I was little, I had an imaginary friend named Davy (maybe I still do!). And, I always slept with the covers up to my neck until I was a teenager. Because you never know when Dracula might show up.

OK, there’s six things plus some bonuses. Now which six people shall I tag? Let’s see… whose weirdness do I wanna see (and tagging some folks that aren’t folks other NIT folks will likely tag)… how about Contrary, Sister Margaret, kilowatthour (when you return from your trip of course!), Dirty Catholic, Bitter Betty, and pageantmom? (Maybe Newscoma and The New Jan Brady too… except Newscoma, dear, you have to post about something BESIDES Bigfoot…heh.) And anyone else who wants to join in on all the weirdness, of course!

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17, 18, 19, 21!

Posted by Lynnster on May 2, 2006

Just random stuff for an about-to-be-rainy Tuesday afternoon in Memphis…

Where do I keep hiding stuff from myself? Recently I lost the really good, really fast battery recharger (as opposed to the not that great, really slow one which I know exactly where it is), just completely misplaced it, one of those things I always put back up in the same place every time but obviously not this time. It was like it just vanished into thin air, no clue where I laid it down, can’t find it anywhere. Really pissed about it too because it worked so wonderfully and fast compared to this other lousy one.

Then this morning I notice I’m about to run out of 39 cent stamps. Now I KNOW good and well there are rolls upon rolls of old 34 cent stamps, probably 33 and 32 cent, who knows what else, in this house. I THOUGHT I knew exactly which drawer they were in. Apparently not, apparently I either used them up and forgot, or they’re there and I’ll find them tonight in which case I’ll be really annoyed, or they’re just not there. I give up.

I’m SO over working today. Unfortunately three more hours to go.

Didn’t get much sleep last night AND didn’t get three-fourths of the stuff I intended to do last night done. Probably because I stayed up too late and too long ripping FOUR THOUSAND MILLION MP3’s for what I’m hoping will be a worthwhile big major project. Not financially, not profitable, just a labor of love as they say…

Tonight will hopefully be a little earlier to bed than usual (like maybe, oh, 2 a.m.) and maybe something decent to have for dinner. I hardly ever eat anymore and I forget (like now) when I last did most of the time and the majority of time I’m just not hungry. I think I might have eaten something Sunday night but I’m not sure. I know that’s not really good for you, but I’m just not hungry most of the time, and an overwhelming majority of stuff I have always liked, I have been progressively losing any appetite for. Down to what amounts to a very small list of things I’m still happy eating. This is nothing new, been like this for months and months really. Don’t worry, I’m probably skinnier than I’ve been in 15 years but I’m not, like, bones or anything. And my hair’s gotten longer than ever and is not falling out from malnutrition or anything so I think I’m probably OK, I’m just plain not hungry, ever.

However, I am a little bit this afternoon so I think if this day EVER gets over with, it might be a night for some good major takeout from somewhere, just haven’t decided where yet. Nope, I don’t cook (I CAN, I just don’t), I don’t clean, I’m pretty much useless when it comes to domestic crap. Hey man, I got better things to do!! Giggle…

So here’s something I’m excited about, Jennifer Finch’s band The Shocker’s new full-length CD comes out on the 15th in the U.S. Jennifer, as many will know, used to be in L7 and I really dig The Shocker’s stuff, they do a really cool cover of “Body Count” (which, as you can see via my Audioscrobbler/LastFM report if you’re reading today on Tuesday, I was listening to the original last night). Yeah, I have kinda developed a bit of a headbanging thing in recent years, probably mainly because we have been lacking in decent radio stations around here for a while and the last several years I’ve been listening to a bit heavier alt-rock stuff on the radio as well as heavier in general. But I always liked L7 a bunch anyway. Anyhoo, you can check out some of the new tracks on The Shocker’s MySpace page or on The Shocker’s website. Pretty cool stuff, especially “Body Count”, woohoo.

On one sorta related note and another totally unrelated note, my last two CD purchases have also been excellentamundo and both Knoxville bands – the new one from Southern white trash rock boys The Dirty Works, Biscuits & Liquor, and the latest CD from the absolutely marvelous Tim Lee, Concrete Dog, which is just terrific and I’ve played it about a million times already. You can also listen to some of the tracks on Tim’s MySpace page.

Looks like I might be heading to NYC in August or September for some something I still don’t really know what it is, but my friend Michelle, who is moving back home to Brooklyn from Florida, says I and our other friends need to come up for it. Haven’t been up there since the summer of 1997 so that should be kinda cool if it all pans out.

Oh well, back to work… happy rainy and tired Tuesday!

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Your Feets Too Big

Posted by Lynnster on March 30, 2006

Thursdays are my day off. Thursdays are good.

Going to see the Tim Lee Band from Knoxville play here in Memphis tonight, hopefully – should be an excellent time!

I’ve been having a little minor (and, of course, in jest) war of words lately online with one of my oldest and dearest friends, Jo Walker. Josie and I were the only two females in the bunch I ran with in college – one of several different groups of folks I hung out with but this gang was the closest and included some of those famous for their appearances throughout my blog over the last nine years such as KC, Greg, Duncan, etc. I wound up part of the group because KC and I had known each other since we were little kids; Jo sort of became osmosed (is that a word?) into it ‘cos she was related to 50% of the guys in the group and everybody, really, but me and a couple of others were related to each other anyway somehow someway, mostly cousins and then a couple of sets of brothers. Jo wasn’t related to KC but was related to Greg (cousins), who was related to KC (cousins again), so in a way it was like everyone was related to everyone else and truthfully at some point I think we all forgot that some of us weren’t related to each other. Well, except for those of us who were dating at the time, of course.

Anyway, Jo eventually wound up marrying Stevie Kane, another of our group (and who I almost got smushed into a pulp with when we almost hit a concrete wall head-on many years ago driving back from lunch hour in Memphis, another momentous event documented here many years ago in this blog). I’m still not quite sure what turned that around where she agreed to marry him since she wouldn’t speak to him for fifteen years after he killed her pet fish and burned her apartment building to the ground (two unrelated incidents), and she used to say things – whenever it was pointed out that Stevie Kane was single and available – like “Over my dead body,” and so on and so forth. But anyway, yeah, they’re married and it’s weird but it’s all good.

Being Jo Walker’s friend, while she may be one of my favorite people on earth, has always been a great big thorn in my side on some levels. Why, you ask? Well, for one thing, we look absolutely ridiculous together. Josie used to model a long time ago (rolling eyes). She’s nearly 6 feet tall with insanely long legs, and even though I don’t think she has a speck of Native American blood in her, we have always referred to her as the “Indian Princess” or “Indian Goddess”. She’s that tall, about as big around as a toothpick even after having now gone through childbirth, legs up to her neck, long flowing black hair that always just looks just so, and naturally dark skinned so she never has to lay out or set foot in a tanning bed, she has a perpetual great tan. Miss Thang is perfect. I, on the other hand, am 5′2″, unforgivingly average, very much a white white girl, and might have a good hair day one day a month. There was never another more tremendously unmatched pair on the planet than dumpy short little old me and Miss Amazon Indian Goddess.

Then there’s the music thing. Way back in the day, I only knew of a couple of other chick drummers in the general vicinity besides Josie. Now, you’d look at her and never think “chick drummer”. She’s a great one though. This makes me sick for two reasons. The reason she is a chick drummer is because she grew up in a house with the very same thing that was in my house, at least part of the time, growing up – a drum kit. Like my dad, hers was a drummer too. Unlike her, I chose to ignore the drum kit and never bothered to learn how to play. Which is the second reason it makes me sick. I coulda made some sweet money over all these years as a chick drummer.

Of course, on the flip side of that, all you have to do is say two words to Jo in order to send her into paroxysms of vitriol and words that bother my virgin ears – MEG WHITE. (I happen to like Meg White just fine, for the record, but you take your life into your hands mentioning her around Josie.)

Anyway, way back in the old days when everybody used to flop at Scott’s old apartment in West End, which was small to begin with, sometimes it was even harder to find sleeping space because not only the twelve or thirteen of us in our little group, as well as any assortment of dates and girlfriends and boyfriends, would be crashing there as well as, sometimes, most of whomever had been at whichever club that night. As well as, sometimes, whatever band from out of town had been playing at whichever club that night. Sometimes it would just be wall to wall people crashed in every available chair (not many) and the couch (only one) and the floor and you’d have to watch where you stepped if you had to make one of those middle of the night sneaks to the bathroom. This was always especially fun if you’d had too much to drink that night and were, indeed, trying to get to the bathroom to throw up or something.

Now I, of course, had girlfriend rights to the one bed in the house, but more often than not I was mad at him anyway, so most nights I usually wound up either sleeping out in the papasan chair that was out on the balcony curled up with Evan, who was always out on the balcony. Or I’d be sharing the couch with Jo, which was actually a pretty big couch and not bad for sleeping on even with two people, as long as you didn’t mind someone’s feet in your face. So, in essence, I am pretty familiar with Josie Walker’s feet.

Which brings me to the point of this entry about the gorgeous and perfect Jo Walker, former model, super chick drummer extraordinaire, almost 6 foot tall Indian Princess/Goddess.

Let it be known that Jo Walker has got some bigass, ugly, size 9 or 10 (?), boatlike feet!

Hehehe…

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Shootin’ Dirty Pool

Posted by Lynnster on January 11, 2006

So here we go… The Lynnster Zone v2.0.

In the meantime, while trying to get back in the habit again, for a little while I’m going to post something old and something new each time.

New… would be general updates on the past year or whatever, but you know what, I’m so tired right now I’m going to sit on all that a bit longer, not that there’s a whole of news to report.

Old… because I keep thinking of, just stuff that I don’t know where it came from or why I even thought about any of it lately. Random observations out of nowhere for no apparent reason, it would seem…

One of my fave time wasters is the Pogo online game site, and one of my (many) fave games over there is their High Stakes Pool game. And, I’ve gotten pretty good at it over time.

Which is odd ‘cos… girls in Camden weren’t allowed to play pool.

Wasn’t a parent thing or anything like that. We just never had the opportunity to learn how ‘cos… the guys were always playing. When Video Village opened down on the Court Square in the early ’80s, I got to play all the video games I wanted usually… ‘cos the guys were always playing pool.

Might I add mostly under false pretenses as well, at least for those who were still under 18. When the arcade opened, they required written notes from parents in order for those under 18 to be able to play, and the notes were all taped up on a wall for public (and I assume law enforcement) view.

I’m going to take a stab at guessing that at least 10 of those notes were probably penned by yours truly, and most of my girlfriends were responsible for another 5-10 each or maybe more, as well as other Camden and New Johnsonville chicks who could adequately forge a note in what appeared to be someone’s mom’s handwriting. Mostly said things like so-and-so “has my permission to play pool at Video Village”, etc.

One of my favorites (actually written by another girl from school and not me): “Greg (last name edited) can play pool if he wants to.” Heh.

Anyway, I don’t know that any of us ever asked to play (or rather, be taught HOW to play) since it was difficult as it was for the guys to get a table back when the arcade was in its heyday, was THE place to meet up every night uptown, and was so busy all the time. So they sure weren’t going to give a table up to us or waste table time teaching any of us how to play.

So nope, never learned how to play pool for real, only online. That’s OK tho, I can still play a mean freakin’ game of Galaga and was the high score ahead of most of the boys for years, until the arcade finally closed after I went to college and the machine went wherever it went…

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It’s Been a Long, Long Time

Posted by Lynnster on March 8, 2005

Here’s what happened: I got this e-mail the other day, which I still haven’t responded to (because I am just as pathetic as ever about answering e-mail unless you’re my mother or my future mother-in-law in which case you’re probably going to wait a day or maybe two but not much longer since I am lazy but not stupid) asking if the site had died and/or was ever going to get updated, to which I almost replied “Yes” and “Maybe”, but then it occurred to me that that’s a pretty snippy and sarcastic response to some poor soul who’s not had the misfortune (but you LOVED it) of direct exposure to my smart mouth so I thought I’d just shut up and be nice and respond later when I was feeling a bit less KC-ish and just quietly update for now and pretend I wasn’t about to be unnecessarily rude to someone. Yep, I’m afraid in lieu of being haunted (which he always swore he would do, nyah nyah didn’t work) I am instead apparently doomed to channel the only person I’ve ever known that’s a bigger smartass then me at some of the most inappropriate times.

AND I also have become a really big fan of a few web writers (I’m sorry, the words blog and blogger are just like trying to pull teeth without anesthetic for me so I guess I really am old and grumpy now) and I was really wanting to drop ‘em a couple of lines but I was too embarrassed at how pathetic I have been updating here so, you know, I’m attempting to save face and not embarrass myself totally. Although I suppose I should be disturbed that I have kept this on AOL for this long but you know what – I am paying PENNIES for FREAKING TONS of web storage and I have never once had to be preoccupied with the word BANDWITH, not EVER – so, you know, I don’t really care. There’s better ways I reckon but after having dealt with these files on here and all the major renovations and whatnot for getting pretty danged close to ten years now the thought of moving them is as tiring and trauma-inspiring as the thought of moving me after 17 years in the same place… and more on that shortly (heh)…

AND I also killed another computer (of course) in the interim since I was last here and my files are all being held hostage on the old hard drive and I haven’t retrieved them yet, but once I resolved my technical issues with AOL (it was the freakin’ stupidest thing in the world and I can’t believe it took me four years to figure out what was wrong and was by far worse than the 18 hours straight I spent one weekend trying to repair a sick 486 only to find the drive cables were hooked up wrong, tho I swear I checked them a few dozen times and which was my previously most stupid computer geekette f-up in the world ever)… so there was that…

AND Paul Westerberg is on tour again which doesn’t mean a whole lot here since I’m not updating that page tonight anyway but he’s ACTUALLY COMING TO MEMPHIS THIS TIME and I have no one – N-O O-N-E – that can go with me so I just felt like bitching about that.

So anyway I figure there are maybe 4.5, maybe 6.5, people in the world who will show up here eventually and mutter a shocked expletive or two or three under their breath (something along the lines of “daaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaayum…” – and yeah, if you’re from down here it’s pronounced pretty much just like that) at the fact that I have actually updated after two years of silence. Heck, I don’t even know why I’m here updating when I’m just about dead exhausted, other than the above and the fact that I have extreme stress-induced insomnia at the moment and am sitting here typing, seeing as how I’ve run out of names and other stuff to Google and useless junk to look at and all the other dumb things I have a habit of doing when I’m bored, when I really should be in bed. But, all in all, that’s beside the point. Plus anyone that knows me at all knows I don’t go to bed at a decent hour ever anyway. Nope, some things never change.

But truthfully and seriously… even tho this Graffiti stuff started as an experiment (of some sort, what I couldn’t say) and I really could have cared less who read it or didn’t at the time (eight freakin’ longass years ago)… when I lost my biggest fan (and foe) and his sidekick I kinda lost most of the urge to purge my brain of all thought, intelligent and otherwise, publicly. I dunno, after a while as years progressed here on the Wall, there got to be this cycle where I’d upload a new update, there’d be some smartass (or sometimes downright nasty, or sometimes just a great big laugh) comment in my mailbox the next morning, I just got used to it. Call-and-response, or what have you. So the last couple of times I updated, now lo all those two years ago almost, when I knew that response wasn’t coming ever – I really just kinda started feeling hateful about the whole Graffiti thing. Plus I got busy – real busy – and stayed busy. Busy enough most of the time that now I could use about a dozen clones of me, instead of just the one I was begging for previously…

Then lately – here’s the rub – I’ve been finding myself, when I do have a little spare time – or I’m eating dinner or something, which this is really kind of pathetic but now instead of flipping on the TV while dining, when I do manage to eat which is almost never, I’m liable to go catch up on my reading at Reality News Online (Ken Kellam and Phil Kural ROCK!!) or some such instead or something (since I continue to be a reality TV addict but have become much much much more choosy about what I get into these days) – anyway, I’ve gotten to where there are several personal websites I’ve become fascinated with and read daily. Again as per above – I know, I know, these days they’re called blogs, and now that blog has actually been officially recognized as both a noun (as in, this is my blog) and a verb (as in, to blog), I should be saying that what I’m doing is blogging rather than the ancient dinosaurish updating my Graffiti Wall because the latter now sounds so old-fashioned – but give me a break, I’ve been doing this for eight years now so, yes, in the world of personal weblogs I suppose that makes me old-fashioned. I am old and I’m grumpy, leave me alone.

So anyway, I am highly addicted to reading up on a few, like that of former Real World-Miami cast member Dan Renzi (who was hilarious back then on MTV and is even more hilarious on a daily basis now – I adore this guy), whose blog in turn introduced me to one belonging to this cool chick named Brittney, which at first grabbed me because of the Sparkwood & 21 reference and then when I realized where she is, I find myself somewhat reliving my own disaffected pissed-off youth of my twenties in downtown freakin’ Nashville through her misadventures, which seem to be at least somewhat less debauched and deranged than my own were. Well, unless all her friends turn out to be strung out drugged-up musicians hanging naked off balconies in West End at 4 in the morning and sleeping twelve to a one-bedroom flat. In which case I’d be worried that she is actually my doppelganger walking around the N-town, just 15-20 years younger… it’s already kind of scary that she’s from a small town and obviously dearly loves Twin Peaks. However, she’s not a blonde so probably not, just maybe walking in my ghost’s footsteps from time to time. If it’s true that parts of our spirits sometimes get left behind in places where there was extreme trauma and/or emotion, I’m sure the ghost of 20-21 year old me continues to walk around Elliston Place, pissed off about one thing or another as usual… anyway, I should probably drop her a note or something but then she’d probably think I’m some crazy almost-middle-aged woman obsessed with lost Nashville youth for some strange incomprehensible reason and she’d be right, so I won’t. Ah, the City Without A Subway. Wish for the thousandth time I’d never left.

By the way, I actually had to go up there a couple of weeks ago for a family funeral and that was the first time in a long time I’d really driven right in and around town, not just passing thru, and that was pretty freakin’ weird. I can’t tell you exactly what was so weird because I have given up incriminating myself over past misdeeds for Lent this year, but for those that care driving south on Nolensville Road was not fun and my old route to work down Harding Place was no less sad than it ever was.

Anyway, so back to people that keep their websites updated… then there’s my other new favorite, dooce, run by an expatriate Memphian (well, Bartlett anyway – Bartlettian? Bartlettonian? What exactly do people from Bartlett call themselves anyway?) named Heather who is also somewhat younger than me and is such a fabulous writer I am in tears of laughter and joy and shrieking daily. It’s a total hoot and I luv her daily photos. And her dog looks suspiciously like he might be a relative of Dobie, but I don’t think she got him in Memphis so I guess not…

Well, so anyhow, I got to reading other people’s stuff on a regular basis and kept thinking about this here Graffiti Wall and finally just gave in and came back. Lucky you, huh? You know you missed me…

But really the really disturbing thing tho, now that I’m here, is there is just not THAT much new to report. Oh, I’m sure if I think real hard for a while (which I can’t right now, I’m too tired and too delirious) there are some dormant rants just waiting to be let out and maybe I’ll get to some of that soon, but really, as far as what’s new since 2003… well, not much.

But I guess there is some… for one thing, I have a new job, for the first time in 14 years. It was kind of a have-to situation – no, I didn’t get fired – my boss more or less retired to do something else so I had to by default. I had three months’ notice almost, but the job market was so crappy down here at the time that by the time those three months rolled around, I still didn’t have a new job to go to – but I had two interviews the day after my last day. I stayed unemployed for almost a week this past summer (which of course threw me into a state of near-panic), but by the next week I had two job offers and that was weird – that was the first time in my life I have EVER turned down a job! And, of course, took the other one… still in healthcare but somewhat of a different position than I have ever worked before, and much lower key, less responsibility. Frankly I was ready for it as I was verging close to burnout in the field and, well, sick of dealing with people, patients, doctors, insurance companies, co-workers, etc., about to go postal and all that cheery stuff – so this felt like a good move (and I was right). Lower pay, but only because I had gotten a raise in January of last year – my salary at my new job is the same as it was before I got the raise, so no big deal and frankly – because of this next part – I could have really cared less if it was even less…

Now, here’s the part where you start to hate me (it’s OK, everyone does, even my mother and isn’t there a law against hating your own child, especially when it’s your only one?!?!?)… because… I work at home! Hahahaha! Oh yeah, baby, make noooo mistake – I LOVE IT!!!! I get up in the morning, I take the dogs out, I fix my coffee, I sit down and go to work. Sometimes I even work in my pajamas. It’s really awesome, I love my job and I love the people I work with, and I am spoiled forevermore about traditional jobs, I will never want to have to “go into” work again anywhere ever. The good thing is I can probably stay at this job indefinitely no matter where I may go, since 99.99% of it is over the Internet anyway. And, though I do work a set schedule and have to be online working when I’m scheduled… as far as extra and overtime I can work anytime of the day or night, naturally. I just love it. Very very happy with this. Best decision I ever made and I totally lucked into it coming up when it did.

There are some strange unexpected things about working at home, though. Like, for instance, I find that most days at the end of the day working I feel like I need a shower again… but that’s mostly because I have four almost 10-month old puppies at home that are constantly rolling around in the dirt and mud outside (often dragging each other by the tail thru the mud) and they are usually getting their muddy paws on me during our outside breaks. But that’s been a nice perk – we can have our little outside breaks through the day, which has been a godsend with young ones around again (more about that later). I also actually, even though I work only four days a week (I work 10 1/2 hour shifts), feel like I have even LESS spare time than I did when I worked five days a week, which seems strange. But it’s still really killer to have that third day off every week – would be nicer if it was a Monday or Friday so I could stretch out the weekend a bit, but maybe someday, for now I’m just happy to have what I have. Since I interact with my boss and co-workers mostly via e-mail and the occasional phone call, and the boyfriend is currently residing about 450 miles southeast of here, I sometimes spend days on end where I don’t speak to any living soul in person other than canines and felines, but that’s OK, I kind of like it that way. Were KC here, he would be torn between deeming me regressed into total and complete social retardation and being beside himself with glee that I was now available at his EVERY beck and call and whim 24/7 and he and Greg and I would be on 10.5 hour IM all day every work day. It would have been fun, now it’s just sad, but that’s okay now.

Anyway, that’s some of the biggest news since March 2003 when I was last here… other than that, what else have I been up to, oh, I don’t know, just things. I still work a part-time job I always have had (always worked at home there but that was just “extra” work) which is getting harder and harder to keep up with lately but I’m managing. And I have the equivalent of another full-time job because I am one of three senior administrators of a rather large (almost 40K members) international website that I have been involved with for a couple of years now… not really at liberty to say what or where but it’s about a cause that’s been pretty near & dear to my heart for some time now. I guess that’s probably another reason I haven’t been here messing with the personal site for a while… I get most of my techgeekchick urges out there, playing around in the back end techie stuff on the site. From a techie aspect, it’s really awesome, man… 14-15 years ago when I was running my little BBS in Memphis, I never dreamed there would one day be the kind of stuff like the software we use on site now. I get to playing around with the buttons and switches just to see what stuff will do. And haven’t crashed it yet… I don’t think it’s really crashable unless you have direct access to the server tho (which I don’t – yet) and the server’s located in Texas, soooo… I might be a little more careful flipping switches when I have server access, heh. Anyway… as far as my work with the site, it’s not that I’m not proud of what we’ve done – I’m very much so – but that leads to some personal issues that in this day and age are best not publicly divulged, at least not at this point in time. I’ll just say that I spend the majority of my spare time pouring effort into this cause and we have already seen many, many positive changes and improvements just in the little over two years I have been involved in it, and it’s nice to be able to witness direct results of something you have worked hard towards and given so much effort like that. Plus – we have annual conferences/conventions/what have you! Last year was spent in sunny Florida, this year headed to San Francisco (I hope, still not positive I’m going to be able to go) – I visited SF when I was 14 and have been wanting to go back as an adult ever since so I am really, really looking forward to it and hoping the trip will pan out for me. (UPDATE – since I originally started writing this a while back the conference has been cancelled so no SF for me, not this year anyway.) Anyway, what an awesome thing and force in my life this has been… and having now met most of my colleagues in person and many have become friends for life… including my adorable French friend who would just give me his car – his car!!! – if he could ship it over here to me because my current one is so old and pathetic (apparently one doesn’t have much use for an automobile in Paris, but I would certainly make use of it going to Paris, Tennessee, hahaha…). Damn shame too ‘cos it’s one of those funky little bitty European cars with some kind of animal name like Panther or something. Shoot. Free car and I can’t even get it… which is, as usual, my luck…

For a long time I was out of town more often than not, though not so much anymore… part of that in recent months anyway has been because of the influx of very young canines, as previously mentioned, tho they have finally gotten old enough I can leave them overnight once in a while thank goodness. I have lost some and gained some in the past year… my beloved 11 year old lap dog of a Doberman, Baby, finally left us last fall after having spent a year of her health deteriorating and having gone blind the year before as well. Less than a month later, a black Lab mix I had wound up with – and not unlike how I wound up with Baby who begat Dobie, because the neighbors really couldn’t keep them and unbeknownst to me at the time she moved in with me Baby was pregnant with Dobie – so too was Satin, who was a very young thing who’d become my buddy after moving in next door. She had gotten lost for a couple of weeks and I had told her owners if she showed up, she could stay here – they’d been having trouble with her indoors and outdoors and she had been practically living over here with us anyway. Well, on her little two week “vacation”, she got knocked up, which I found out for sure several weeks later, and on Memorial Day weekend last year gave birth to five pups – none of whom looked anything like her. They were about the biggest newborn puppies I’d ever seen – and, they were (another very unexpected surprise) white with black spots, except for one. Tho the white with black spots would lead one to think “Dalmatian” – nope, that wasn’t it. I wasn’t supposed to keep any of them, then everyone who was going to take one but one wound up backing out at one time or another – so now, ten months later, I have four young dogs who do not look like Labs and I have NO clue what their paternal parentage could have possibly been. They don’t even look alike, other than the white with black (and two with brown) markings. In short, their paternal parentage has been about as clear as Dobie’s ever was (though I have some better guesses about him these days at least). But they’re all adorable, especially my one little perfect girl (the only girl) who when her intended home backed out I knew wasn’t going anywhere. It’s like living in a nursery school 24/7 – and I was NOT intending to ever acquire more dogs, ever – but you know, things happen. Their mama, however, unexpectedly passed away less than a month after Miss Baby, an acute onset of what I could only figure out must have been hemorrhagic gastroenteritis and which happened so fast she was gone before there was time to do anything, which I hated not only because she was a really good dog, but she had been only a baby herself, just 15 months old. So now I only have Dobie, who just turned 10 (!!!!!), and my great big fat huge Beagle-Dachshund, Lulu, who is also elderly…. and these four little brats. And of course the cats, all of them still, no new additions and no losses there. So still a houseful… we manage. I had just been looking forward to eventually having one day only cats, because they are so much more low maintenance… but obviously it wasn’t in the cards and I’m frankly not all that surprised. By the way, I also think one of the puppies is either retarded (really) or autistic, Bruiser – he poses a bit of a challenge sometimes, but he’s a sweetie. Daisy is, again, my perfect little girl, who is cute and prissy but don’t let that fool you ‘cos she can beat the crap out of all of her brothers even tho they’re twice as big as her, and she also thinks she’s a vicious guard dog (the boys are too lazy to care). Buster with his white body and black head, I kind of intended to keep all along and he very oddly has always kind of looked like a pot-bellied pig when he’s laying on his side on the floor sleeping. Then there’s Petey, who is HUGE and has this GREAT BIG HEAD and was born with a big (now much smaller tho) white question mark on his black head and minds me perfectly and is so gentle even tho he’s the biggest, and is allllll about food. Anyway, yes – it’s very active around here these days. Pictures soon on the site I hope, one thing at a time right now tho…

My father, who as most know had been sick for a long time, passed away in September 2003… miss him, hated it to happen, but on the other hand was glad all that suffering and pain was finally over. You would think that at 38 years old you wouldn’t feel too terribly orphaned, losing a parent like that… but I have decided I don’t think it really matters at any age, except it probably sucks worse when you’re still a kid. I guess, I’m just theorizing there. And of course I’m no stranger to death, having lost nearly two dozen of my friends at this point… but yeah, it’s different.

And on a final note of news… I nowadays am what one would call, um, betrothed… yes, such an ancient and biblical word courtesy of my VERY Catholic significant other… anyhow, well, couldn’t be happier, story’s been 16 years in the making, right under my nose all those years and didn’t even know it, and so on and so forth, yada yada. Don’t mistake my flippancy for lack of enthusiasm – I’m just tired plus I can really only say so much. Call it crazy, here I am pushing 40 but still feeling just a smidgen (not much, ‘cos the truth is I really don’t give a ****) of guilt at having violated one of the cardinal rules of small town girlhood, one of the ten commandments if you will, that being thou shalt not get in a serious relationship with one of your best friend’s boyfriends, even if it’s been 15 or 20 or more years, by god. If you didn’t grow up in a small (and probably Southern) town the severity of this violation will likely be a somewhat incomprehensible concept, but suffice it to say that even though Kelli and I have been best friends through our teens, college days and thus far into adulthood, there is still a part of me that will never ever forgive her for having kissed my high school sweetheart, the one whom I almost married, before I did (another one of those cardinal rules – don’t be sucking face and messing around with someone whom one of your best friends could end up married to or at least in an otherwise long-term relationship later or you may live to regret it, possibly for life). Likewise, she can hold a similar grudge against me for messing up one of her own potential life partners – once upon a time we were dating cousins and I dumped the one I was dating, after which not long after the other cousin dumped her (which leads to another rule – if you and one of your best friends are going to date brothers, cousins, or any such tandem pair then you make any and ALL decisions together or risk being held responsible for god only knows WHAT for the rest of your life). However, in retrospect, and I think she will agree, this rotten lousy selfish rash act of mine actually turned out to be a blessing in disguise as her half of the cousin team has reappeared later in life and turned out to be a real **** so now one could say she has me to thank for saving her from potential lifelong misery! Yep, there are many nuances and anomalies in the whole concept ‘cos, well, you know, we come from small towns and you run out of new people to date after a while and things get potentially (and all redneck jokes aside, not literally) sort of incestuous, but you realize what I’m talking about here is really super serious, long-term, maybe you almost got married and maybe you didn’t but still pretty damned serious relationships. But I digress, and how’d Kelli get into this conversation anyway since she has nothing to do with this current thing…

Well, to make a long story short, my significant other and I were once a part of two OTHER couples 15-16 years ago and, well, we are just slow. (ha!) It took us that long to figure out the wrong two people were together in those two couples and so, well again, here we are, now over two years after we both became aware of that amazing discovery at almost exactly the same moment, socially retarded as we both are (ha! again). Probably needless to clarify at this point (rolling eyes, I know I have begun to ramble… oh you missed me, admit it…), the female half of that other couple was one of my best friends since I was a kid, so yeah, even tho I have not lived in my hometown in 21 years almost now and even tho I’m, again, pushing 40 now (in case anyone forgot), there is still just a little teeny tiny bit of small town guilt about that fact just on the basis of violating probably the number one most important cardinal rule (but really when it comes down to it I don’t feel one bit guilty about it… in other words, pshaw!). But still, as the aforementioned Kelli herself (who has violated such rules over and over and over again and totally sans guilt pretty much every time) said to me a couple of years ago when I informed her of whom I had hooked up with, just to be sure and remind me in case it hadn’t crossed my mind already -

“Lynn, you just don’t DO that!!” – emphasis on you, meaning the very idea that I would do such a thing was so incomprehensible as to possibly be a sign of the apocalypse. And she is right – I never dated ANY of my friends’ boyfriends, with the exception of two and they, frankly, just don’t count. One I was sent out on a date with as a proxy when that friend had to go out of town, so that was what one would call sanctioned or endorse – and another whom we all kind of just passed around anyway, plus it was just impossible to truly get serious about him and listen to me and listen to me well here, a few dozen gals besides myself would say the very exact same thing, I’ll have you know. So, in summary, up until quite recently, I have been squeaky clean on that deal. Unlike some of my friends who will remain unnamed but their names start with K (but she recently married a really really nice guy whom none of us have ever dated before so I should really cease picking on her about having dated EVERY single young male person within two whole counties for lo those 20 or so years)… I was a saint among Southern divine sisterhoods and all that rot. Heh.

Anyhow – yeah, I’ve violated the big one, so sue me. Actually my significant other has as well – the fourth, other male half was his friend as well – but he’s a city boy (not this city but another) so those small town rules don’t matter (and therefore he could really and truly give a ****), but still there’s just no getting around that I’m with my former best friend’s former boyfriend and he’s with his former best friend’s former girlfriend. As for him, the only thing that’s even mildly interesting to him about small town sort of stuff is the fact that once when he had the chutzpah to call me a “country girl” I very quickly reprimanded him and corrected him that I have never ever even once lived in the country except to have lived one mile outside the city limits, which really doesn’t count, once for a couple of years and I am most certainly and assuredly NOT a “country girl”, I am a TOWN GIRL, dammit. Which continues to this day to be an endless source of amusement for somebody but personally I just don’t find it very funny at all… anyway…

But yeah, I’m still kind of waiting for this inevitably uncomfortable and touchy situation to rear that aspect of its ugly head – somehow miraculously it didn’t at my 20 year high school reunion last year, tho I was fully expecting and prepared for it, but since the eventually offended party didn’t show it didn’t happen. I just know that while it frankly doesn’t matter a bit what either of the eventually offended parties think ‘cos it’s obvious now who belonged together in the first place – it ain’t gonna be pretty. (shrug) Although in the case of my former significant other, in that case I REALLY REALLY don’t care, matter of fact I am looking forward to the day the phone inevitably rings – because it always does, eventually – and boy won’t THAT one be surprised when I hand the phone over so Mr. Right can tell Mr. Waaaaaaaaaaaay Way Way Wrong exactly why I don’t wish to speak with him and exactly what I feel he should go do with himself… (Mr. Right hates the idea of that whole concept by the way, mainly because of his dislike for his former friend my ex, but I just think I’ll have SUCH a sense of peace I haven’t quite had in darn near 20 years at that moment… ahhhh… some things are worth waiting for…)

Anyhow, well, there ya go, that’s about as much high drama as I get these days ‘cos frankly me and him are both getting old and boring and all set in our ways and stuff. I mean, you know, technically I could be somebody’s grandmother at this point (thankgodthankgodthankgod NO, but my old and dear friend Julie who is a year younger than me is, hahahaha…). So I would like to think I am beyond spewing much spite about how I wasted pretty much all of my twenties for absolutely nothing, but just on the off chance Mr. W.W.W.W., who probably still hasn’t figured out how to operate a computer yet anyhow, does drop by here, I have three things to say: (1) Nope, you’re not imagining things or having an acid flashback; (2) you’re damn right that’s who I’m marrying; and (3) You know what, you were absolutely right to try to keep us apart all those years, even though you were not only too self-centered to be conscious that you were doing it, but too selfish and self-centered to be aware that the reason you were doing it was because you felt threatened and inferior – and rightly so! (To everyone else – sorry – I’ve been getting impatient and waiting about two and a half years to say that, it just feels good to practice… but isn’t it kinda fun to be in on such a potentially icky and ugly and uncomfortable domestic squabble when it’s not your own? Heck I’m right in the middle of it and I think it’s funny, believe you me I will be laughing…)

On an almost ending note, and this will be a huge surprise to some… I think it’s finally time I blow this joint, i.e., uproot and leave where I’ve been the last 17+ years. Matrimony is still a little while away but I really outgrew being here ages ago and there’s not much reason to be here anymore and think it’s time for a change, still ironing out the details but think I might be back among my old stomping grounds before too long. It will be a much desired and nice change of pace – this city’s grown nasty and most of the fun left it a long time ago. And I won’t, if I do this, be far from the aforementioned City Without A Subway… plus they got Blockbuster and 24-hour Wal-Mart and a UPS Store and even Walgreen’s (!!!) in my hometown now!! But tune in later when I will be inevitably griping about not being able to attack Best Buy and CompUSA and the lingerie department at Dillard’s at my every whim now… not that I do a lot of any of that nowadays anyway but you know, it’s the principle and contrary to what SOME people think is soooooo funny, I have actually been a City Girl for a pretty long time now, twenty years in fact. Been a looooong time since this chick has been permanently stuck in the sticks. Next stop after that is that city in East Tennessee, but it should be amusing for a few years while I lament the lack of a Waffle House within 50 miles and get used to small town stuff again. Good thing I have gotten used to doing most of my shopping online anyway…

And finally – I must say this because even tho I hate it like you don’t even want to know what, there are those it will make feel ancient and I think that’s hilarious and just can’t resist – I will turn a whopping 39 years of old, old, horribly old age next week. Heck, really, I don’t even look like I did at 29, ten years ago – I haven’t been this skinny in probably fifteen years, my hair (still blonde of course) is halfway down my back and has never ever been this long, and tho all the females in my family age very well I really thought five and ten years ago I had missed that gene and was going to age horrifically so it’s kind of a pleasant surprise and very unexpected. But turning 39 is still kind of icky… I would probably feel horrible about it but just in the last couple of months one person has commented directly and I have been informed secondhand of two other persons’ comments that in some pictures of me they recently saw I looked like I was (A) in my early twenties (yes!!!) and (B) a teenager (double yes!!!) and the ones that made the early twenties comment couldn’t BELIEVE I was even in my thirties at all (triple yes!!! SCORE!!!) so even though I responded that they were all blind but that was very nice of them to say so, secretly I am, like, – and secretly pleased, especially since ain’t nobody telling the significant other that he looks like he’s in his twenties even tho he’s a little over two years younger than me and especially since he thinks it’s real damned funny that I’m turning 39. So pardon me for a little vanity here, I can’t really gloat (and gloat, and gloat, and gloat) about it anywhere ‘cept here with y’all ‘cos everyone else just rolls their eyes and makes smartassed remarks from the significant other to my mother (isn’t there a law against insulting your own child, especially when it’s your only one?!?!?). Well, so anyway, it just goes to show you that there’s something to be said for being immature and unmarried without children and socially retarded after all!!…

’til soon… hopefully not too long, but I don’t think it will be. Thanks for still dropping by now and again if you’re still doing so… and hey, if you’re someone I’ve not heard from in a while or none of the 4.5 people I know still do come by on occasion and hear from here and there (and not the loser I wasted ten years of my life with, natch), maybe drop me a line or something. I probably would either (A) love to hear from you or (B) maybe be past biting your head off and chewing it up and spitting it out, depending on what you did. Oh, I’m just kidding (maybe) – but seriously, say hi and say you’re alive and we’ll all be… one step closer to world peace! Or something. See ya.

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We Care a Lot

Posted by Lynnster on June 27, 2000

Hello. Wish I had time for lots of stuff tonight, but I don’t… and I don’t have time to return phone calls before 3 in the morning, either, so like, you know, once again, e-mail me with news & stuff, the chances I’ll get back to you are a heck of a lot better at this point with that than the stupid phone. Tonight I’m digging the Grosse Point Blank soundtrack, if you haven’t got it you should… what can I say, the Violent Femmes, The Clash, David Bowie & Queen doing “Under Pressure”, Guns N’ Roses, really old Faith No More, The Jam, The Specials, can’t really do much more to shoot me right back to college and HS again, heh, the Bowie/Queen alone will do that immediately, 1982 in a heartbeat.

Anyway, speaking of Grosse Point Blank – a great flick – anyone who’s been here very long knows John Cusack is one of my fave actors and Say Anything… is just about my fave movie of all time, a fondness I also share with my evil brother-in-law Troy, and we also share this theory about John Cusack having been Lloyd Dobler in just about every movie since… you think about it, you’ll get it. Lloyd Dobler as a hit man in Grosse Point Blank. Lloyd Dobler as an air traffic controller in Pushing Tin. Even – not quite so perfectly but almost – Lloyd Dobler as a puppeteer in Being John Malkovich. About the only movie he hasn’t been Lloyd Dobler again in is Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil, and I’m not even 100% sure of his non-Lloyd Doblerness in that. And I haven’t seen it yet but I’m absolutely positive of this – Lloyd Dobler as an indie record store owner in High Fidelity.

Anyway, I gotta go, only other thing I have to say is life is suddenly starting to make some sense for a change, that’s scary. But cool. Later…

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It Just Figures

Posted by Lynnster on April 19, 2000

Stuff That Just Invariably Happens Or Is Just This Way (Just Things I’ve Noticed)… like, three light bulbs in my house have gone out in the last two days, no matter that none of the three are in any way ever on the same amount of time. When I need a flashlight, all the batteries have gone dead and none of them work. When I’ve had the most expensive round of dental work ever in my life, save for orthodontics, just done six months ago, an errant three-month-old from Xmas and now rather chewy Butter Rum Life Saver takes one whole side out… no matter that I’ve been opening bottle caps with my teeth for twenty-five years. My car has a full or near-full tank of gas all the time… except when I’m about to go out of town. Whenever I change the cat litter box, at least two cats suddenly decide they have to go to the bathroom right now just as I’m about to empty it, and at least one has to go check it out as soon as there’s clean litter in it. Every Ally McBeal episode this whole season just about is making me boo-hoo, jeez. The mama dog in my house will only let the clown child dog eat after we’ve gone to bed… which I think means he about starves whenever I leave for a couple of days.

Anyway… well, really nothing else to mention right now except I just recently got my purple star on eBay (500+ positive feedbacks, rock!), it took me six hours to do my taxes this year but with a nice surprise at the end (if I hadn’t been afraid I was gonna have to pay, I’d have done them months ago), and my new buddy Caesar, the Rottweiler next door, appears to have a crush on my Doberman which may be mutual – hard to tell, but I caught ‘em licking each others noses at the fence the other day. Caesar is cool, he’s so well-behaved and well-mannered (which of course makes my two look like idiots), and frequently hangs out with me at the fence, tennis ball or Pooh head (as in Winnie the Pooh) in his big mouth.

Anyhow, must go, shall return, later people…

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Skeletons From the Closet

Posted by Lynnster on January 20, 1999

Well, my exes are all coming out of the closet tonight (er, today). You think I’m joking, I’m not kidding… it’s just not what you think. (giggle)

See, I had this project to do, which I never got around to because I had to do another project, which was clean and straighten out a certain closet in my house that’s been screaming to be straightened up for about, oh, two years or more now, anyway, I had to do that before I could get to the main project, which I never got around to because the closet-cleaning took so long.

I found more stuff that I forgot I had, plus stuff I didn’t know was in there because it was supposed to be somewhere else! Photos, old Valentines, newspaper articles, you name it, I think everyone was fully represented within the depths of that seriously messy closet. One folder full of stuff that keeps turning up like a bad penny, I didn’t even think it was in there, thought it was somewhere else. And some floppy diskettes that were supposed to have gone somewhere else a long time ago that I found lying on the floor behind some stuff… oops.

Well, what a night, my entire past almost is – was – contained in one great big, messy closet. Another neat thing about it all, tho, is that I found all of my buddy Cole’s columns from when he used to write for my hometown paper, and I also found my favorite photo of my favorite Doberman that I thought I’d lost. Anyway, I now have a clean closet, and all my exes are out of it now. (snicker… oh yeah, I think that’s a great pun). Gotta go, ciao for now…

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Spoiled Rotten, So They Say

Posted by Lynnster on November 3, 1998

Hello. Must correct myself about the whole Radio Memphis radio show thing, I dunno where I came up with that figure, the actual figure is that it’s to be broadcast in 40 million homes in Europe. Still cool.

So, who caught Ally McBeal this week and last? I have been rolling on the floor over the whole Stefan the frog thing… little Stefan in a coma on the respirator was almost too much, I don’t think I have ever laughed so hard in my life. I have tried so hard not to like that show and didn’t watch it last season except for once, but this season it’s hooked me hook, line and sinker. Between Ling and Stefan the frog, I’m in a total crack-up every Monday night lately.

Anyway… here are some fun facts that have come up in conversation lately. I never did a dish (as in doing the dishes) until I was in college; I never knew anything about gas heat or window unit air conditioners until I moved to Memphis; I never had a closet I couldn’t live in until I was well into my twenties; and I never had to mow a yard until I was 30. Apparently this supposedly proves how spoiled I was growing up, but hey, we always had dishwashers, central H/A, I always had walk-in closets, and I never had to mow the yard. (shrug) I still don’t know how to barbecue, I am grilling-impaired or something. (giggle)

Well, I gotta go, more later probably or soon anyway, take care…

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Life in a Northern Town

Posted by Lynnster on July 8, 1998

OK, so, me and… this guy I know… were discussing a certain female-type syndrome the other day and later on I thought, hey, I’ll just spend the rest of July dispelling various female myths & legends here, like, one a day.

But then, not only could I not think of very many, but then I thought, wait a minute… we don’t want you guys to know all our secrets and the hows & whys of everything we do (or, for that matter, don’t do). So, scratch that idea.

(For the record, the topic in question that day was why girls always have to go to the ladies’ room in pairs or more when out & about.)

That, however, made me think later of some various legends & myths that are indigenous to my little hometown of Camden, like, why there’s an “uptown”, but no “downtown”, and why if there are three females in a car all three have to ride up front, rather than one sitting in the back… I dunno, maybe that last one isn’t so indigenous to Benton County.

And I feel relatively certain the Sonic in Camden is the only one in West Tennessee that ever had to deal with making regular orders of cheese coneys without the hot dog and a certain group of females who always ended every drink order with the words “…with a lid”. (snicker) (Well, there was a reason for it…)

But anyway, I digress, I really stayed up way too late and am too tired to be babbling much so I’ll spare everyone for now. Later I’m sure…

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It’s Too Late to Turn Back

Posted by Lynnster on May 20, 1998

And to think that I was actually considering shutting the Zone down for good a few months ago… jeez, silly me. The hits and the mail continue to just be amazing, I keep meeting more and more cool ‘Mats fans, and I am having more fun with the site right now than maybe I ever have! The last couple of weeks have just been hilarious, and fun… much as I said before, if I’d had any idea one little article in the Skyway ‘zine would bring this many cool people into my little world, I’d have found something to write about long long ago.

I wish I could share more of the contents of my mailbox (i.e., the viewer mail, heh) with all of you but that wouldn’t be very prudent, however I guess I can mention a few things that have given me a kick without naming names, like one from today, a fellow whose female acquaintance riding with him asked him (about what was on the stereo) “What is this crap, can all they do is scream and cuss?”… and what was on the stereo was The Replacements’ Stink, and he goes on to say, “I’m just amazed I slowed down the car before I threw her out.” Bwahahahaha!

That story comes very close to being the best ‘Mats or Hoodoo Gurus story I’ve ever heard (tho I guess it would be the best ‘Mats story), although still the number one tale of all time is Rich the Gurus fan who lost a girlfriend or fiancee every time the Gurus put a new album out in those 15 years (seriously!!!). I still want to put that up here somewhere on the site if anyone still has the original Poison Pen e-mail of that tragic, but hilarious, tale, bless his little heart, or maybe I can talk Rich into rewriting the whole thing someday.

I remember all too well, all of us Poison Pen mailing list members had heard the story long before, and then when their last new-release album, Blue Cave, was about to come out in the summer of ‘96, poor Rich posted a note about how excited he was a new album was coming out, tho he’d pretty much resigned himself to the fact that his then-current relationship was going to hit the skids thereafter… which it did, the poor guy! Possibly the only Gurus fan who was remotely happy when the Gurus announced their breakup last year was Rich, I had to be happy for him too, now that his apparent Gurus curse will be over maybe he’ll finally be able to have the perfect, lasting relationship with no fear… unless, horrors, the band gets back together for a reunion! Augh!

Anyway, all this recent stuff with the site has been really cool, thanks to everyone who’s dropped a note and stuff! And thanks to my buddy Stef in Boston for some much-needed recent feedback, again (hehe, see, I mentioned you by name this time)!

And on another note, here’s something else pretty cool – this website is being used as a teaching tool for some Internet and Windows95 classes in upper northwest TN, how ’bout that!! Actually, it’s not that big a deal, being that the instructor of those classes just happens to be the woman who gave me birth, but all the same, I think it’s kind of weirdly cool and somewhat incredibly ironic that my admittedly goofy and relatively silly website is part of someone’s classwork and homework – the mind boggles. Anyway, cool! I kinda dig it.

Strange coincidences, I got three e-mails in the last few weeks from old, long-estranged friends who all three said (paraphrased), “Gee, Lynsey, I would have thought you’d have married a doctor by now and had the little perfect domestic life with kids and house with white picket fence and two-car garage, et al”… (extreme giggles)… they don’t know me very well, do they, KC? Hehe.

Well, FYI, here’s the shocking truth about being a single chick associated with a teaching hospital, folks… the whole ER/Dr. John Carter thing is a total myth, there are never residents that are cute and single in the real world. Or the rare one that is is always short and knows nothing about music, so… (shrug) What can I say, I’m a creature of major habit.

Oh, and (no) thanks once again to Northwest… I am so sure I want to go to Cincinnati (no offense to Blair & Noel) or Huntsville this weekend, sigh. Well, this is about enough silliness for today, so I’m off… as usual, if being wrong’s a crime I’m serving forever… (P.W., 1986)… which actually pretty much fits so well right now, I think I’ll make it my new big quote. Hasta, ciao & later…

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Drivin’ n’ Cryin’…

Posted by Lynnster on April 16, 1998

04/16/98 (later): Hola amigos y amigas! Well, nothing like a near-death experience to liven up the end of the week!

I had a rare day that I could actually go out for lunch this afternoon, so Stevie Kane picked me up at the office and off we went out East to Applebee’s at Poplar Plaza. Had a yummy lunch and ruined the day of a poor market research guy that was eating at the next table who asked me if I’d like to do an impromptu taste test on the product he’s market-researching on (currently not available in stores, thank god) but I don’t think my reaction – “Man, that sucks so bad!” – was the one he was hoping for for his product… oops. Spreading a little sunshine wherever I go, snicker.

Anyway, Stevie Kane and I start heading back to Midtown/Crosstown in his car (thank god it wasn’t mine), at the Poplar Avenue viaduct when some speed demon going 80 or more mph passes and, we think, clipped us. The car stopped within INCHES of one of the big ol’ walls down there. After recovering from the shock all was well, we are fine, I was mucho happy not to have been road pizza in the middle of Memphis this fine Thursday, tho I think when we got out of the vehicle to see just how close were to that wall, I know I nearly went into cardiac arrest right then and there…. no way either of us would have walked from that. Talk about one big WHEW.

Several people stopped to make sure all was well and so did one of Memphis’ finest, who thought we might have been the victims of some stolen car/burglary/whatever getaway. We discussed it later, I guess it just wasn’t meant to be our time to go ‘cos neither of us in the car saw our proverbial life flash before our eyes… he says his final thought before the car skidded to a halt was that all his best suits were still at the dry cleaners and would anyone in the family think to go get them for the funeral, heh. I don’t really know what mine was, probably something like, “Oh god, why didn’t I give the dogs a bath last weekend?” or something like that.

Well, there were some other distinct thoughts, but suffice it to say I am real happy to be here puttering around on the Wall right now, ecstatic even. I feel like I’ve been lifting weights for 365 days straight non-stop because every muscle in my body is aching like all get out, but that’s okay, it’s better than the alternative! Hopefully between all these tornadoes & these fools on the road, I’ll be here with more Graffiti for a few more moons to come, laugh. Later…

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